Skip to Content Area

Mary Oliver's Melodies of Love For Our Most Beloved Companions

"What would the world be like without music or rivers or the green and tender grass? What would this world be like without dogs?"

By Ellen Vrana

Dog Songs is American poet Mary Oliver's (September 10, 1935 - January 17, 2019) poetic reminiscences. Oliver, who ensured her employment contract included room for the dog; Oliver, who rebuilt worn fences and replaced chewed ropes; Oliver, who compared love for a dog to music.

Dog Songs begins a choice, a selection - a single moment out of which we move forward anew, accompanied.

How It Begins

A puppy is a puppy is a puppy.
He's probably in a basket with a bunch
of other puppies.
Then he's a little older and he's nothing
but a bundle of longing.
He doesn't even understand it.
Then someone picks him up and says,
"I want this one."

Love for an animal is music for the soul. Songs are melodies that capture the dancing, vibrant, binding love that animals pull from us and give to us.

Oliver writes of dogs that she has known.

Bear was a poet and invented a new language.

The Storm (Bear)

Now through the white orchard my little dog
romps, breaking the new snow
with wild feet.
Running here running there, excited,
hardly able to stop, he leaps, he spins
until the white snow is written upon
in large, exuberant letters,
a long sentence, expressing
the pleasures of the body in this world.
I could not have said it better myself.

Sammy would slip in and out of containment as it suited him, traipsing along like a child. "It turned out Sammy could not only chew through ropes," writes a humored Oliver, "He could also climb fences. So his roaming continued..."

Percy was silly and noble. He ate the Bhagavad Gita and became the wisest of dogs. Percy needed love in the wakeful hours of the night and was "wild with the okayness" of being formidably cuddled and loved by human hands.

And sensitive Luke, who adored flowers, keeping them close and near.

I had a dog
who loved flowers.
Briskly she went
through the fields,
yet paused
for the honey
suckle
or the rose,
her dark head
and her wet nose
touching the face
of everyone...From "Luke"

Dog Songs is about communication and communion forgotten by our adult mouths and ears. Joy written in the snow, wise words devoured, love expressed by tickling fingers.

As in all of her poetry, Oliver patiently shows us how to slow, observe, withdraw, and speak the language of the senses.

I have seen Ben place his nose meticulously into the shallow dampness of a deer's hoofprint and shut his eyes as if listening. But it is the smell he is listening to. The wild, high music of smell, that we know so little about.

We own dogs as far as we beg them not to run away, a supplication they might listen to or not, "depending on a million things."

If You Are Holding This Book

You may not agree, you may not care, but if you are holding this book you should know that of all the sights I love in this world - and there are plenty - very near the top of the list is this one: dogs without leashes.

Dogs are our closest companions, our most beloved friends. But paradoxically, it is the wildness of the dog, the apartness of them - the coming free from their leash and the running away - that captures Oliver's heart.

But I want to extol not the sweetness nor the placidity of the dog, but the wilderness out of which he cannot step entirely and from which we benefit. For the wilderness is our first home too, and in our wild ride into modernity with all its concerns and problems we also need all the suitable attachments to that origin that we can keep or restore. The dog is one of the messengers of the rich and still magical first world. The dog would remind us of the pleasures of the body with its graceful physicality, the acuity and rapture of the senses, and the beauty of forest and ocean and rain and our own breath. There is not a dog that romps and runs but we learn from him.

"I sit down to be with him," wrote novelist Doris Lessing of one of her beloved cats, "It means slowing myself down, getting rid of the fret and urgency ... we try to transcend what separates us."

Like Lessing, Oliver listens, reads, hears across language and species, and transports herself to the "still magical first world." Music memory, of nature, of childhood?

"Strolling Hounds," etching by printmaker Tim Southall. Can you hear them baying from their long-barrelled chests and fluted necks?

I chose a print by Tim Southall for this entry. Tim is a British printmaker who has mastered various techniques - silkscreens, monotypes, etchings - to convey the story in space. There is an otherness in his work, some "faraway nearby," to borrow a term from Rebecca Solnit. A perfect visual to Oliver's "still magical first world."

She would come back dripping thick water,
from the green bog.
She would fall at my feet,
she would draw the black skin from her gums in a hideous and wonderful smile
- and I would rub my hands over her pricked ears and her cunning elbows,
and I would hug the barrel of her body,
amazed at the natural perfect arch of her neck.

It took four of us to carry her into the woods.
We did not think of music,
but anyway, it began to rain slowly.
From "Her Grave"

Accompany Dog Songs with the science on how pets make us human, Steinbeck's late-in-life journey in the company of his dog Charley ("He cannot read, cannot drive a car but in his field he has no peer!"), Charlie Mackesy's illustrations of love and friendship and Gerald Durrell's beautiful stories of the collected pets he invited into his heart as a child and as an adult.

There is a common, calm refrain: to reach an animal, we must "get rid of fret" (as Lessing remarkably put it.) Animals find us on wakeful nights; they accompany us toward our dreams and restore our safety. And in return, they ask to be occasionally freed and always loved.

Mary Oliver illustration-xs. © The Examined Life

Contact


This field is required.
This field is required.

Subject

Support Sales Feedback Other
Send
Reset Form