"Curled close in the curves of creatures. She rests now. Warm. Safe."
There is an enchanting stillness in the eve's twilight and subsequent dreamy darkness. We tidy up the day's achievements and slip underneath our hopes for tomorrow.
Or so we wish. But really, stepping into sleep is tense, impetuous, or simply pushed aside. We need a tonic for this space, a warm, milky drink for the soul. Jackie Morris (born in 1961), an artist of fleetfooted and level-headed pace,
This book is not meant to be read from cover to cover. It is a book for dreamers. Slight of word, rich of image, its purpose is to ease the soul.
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The Unwinding is an invitation to shape-sift. It leaves space for the reader's imagination. The images and words are catalysts for the minds of dreams are not prescriptive. And yet were the book to be prescribed as a medicine, the prescription would read:
DIRECTIONS: Take one story last thing at night before bed, then tuck the book beneath your pillow.
This book inhabits a space we seek. Our instant like of anything 'cozy.' is the part of us that longs to be held by warm water, by arms, by the folds of wooly blankets and plumped cushions.
In all his complexity, Rimbaud once complained that winter was the season of comfort (and thus, by the poet, dreaded.)
Wild dreaming is
what they desire most.
Dreams that hold the scent
of deep green moss, lichen,
the place where the roots of
a tree entering the earth, old stone,
the dust of a moth's wings.
It is unwarranted, our current disrespect for sleep. We upvote cozy beds and nooks on social media, but how many of us slip into one? Does the artist herself?
Ursula Le Guin captures the power of this expanding time in her sensitive thoughtfulness of language and space:
I wish we had more respect for the great gift we are given, the silent hours, the interval of unknowing. Every night offers us a deep draft of the water of forgetfulness, the river Lethe, which we drink in remembrance of where we came from and in practice for our return. From it we rise renewed. Sleep is the strangest of initiations, the kindest of mysteries, a ceremony where observance is blessing. I wish we held it in the honor and gratitude it deserves.I've explored the absence of this special time in Nighttime Activities Done in Solitude, a collection of things we get up to when we are abandoned by sleep but not by dreams or that dreamy state.
From Ursula K. Le Guin's "Great Nature's Second Course"
Head in hands,
head on paw,
each rests in silent
trust of other,
while daylight moths
whisper night songs
and nightingale,
the bird of summer
threads his song of love
through the winter's dark.
To be held thus. To be safely thus. To be loved thus.
Did she know, this woman who found rest in the peace of wild things, how the swan, who offered her body as soft pillow, had once been a maiden, caught in a rainstorm, crouched by the water in shelter of bushes, mistaken by her lover out hunting in twilight, who, seeing her only white petticoat thought her a swan and shot? Did she understand how, rather than falling, her wild soul had risen into evening light and flight in the form of wild swan?
Hands-on fur and head in feathers, tails curled and pulsed the same. Peach moons and soft snow, Morris slips us deeply into a pre-time language we forgot and forsook.
Despite the geologists' knowledge and craft,
mocking magnets, graphs, and maps -
in a split second the dream
piles before us mountains as stony
as real life.
From Wislawa Szymborska's "Dreams" published in Here.
She asked him, What
is the scent of snow?
He replied.
Soft, cold, blue.
And she asked if blue
could be a scent.
He answered,
Moss, tundra,
clean earth and lichen.
The scent of snow is calm,
An absence of scent that
illuminates, so that any
warm life smells so rich.
My mom sends me photos of snow back home, and I swear, I SWEAR; I can smell it. It is so fresh, so new. Held in unrepeating fractals, turning slightly sour when mixed with human scent. The smell of snow breaking down in the heat of living things.
I am lucky. My mind is visual in memory, personality, and pursuit. If my hands had eyes, I would be an artist, indeed. But alas. Writing is how my mind makes art.
Anyway, night after night, I slip into sleep, watching the movie of my life,
The last images to arrive, the deepest sanctuary of the mind, are those of me hiking across America alone, a trip years ago. The harmony of body and nature. Each root, step, rock for rest, and curious bird remembered. Each paw's weight is on the earth at night. It was the most formidable doing of my life, and I find refuge in the me who did it.
Curled close in the curves of creatures,
she rests now. Warm.
Safe.
Unwinding is a book for our exhausted, overwhelmed consciousness. We are just so awake. I mean that in a non-political sense. We long to be safe, secure, control of our lives, and we are not. We are so fearful and angry (the words are not enough).
Let this book give you the refuge of your most loved self.
Other stories to drink before bed: Mary Oliver's melodies to the loves of her life, and the extant body of work that is Wendell Berry's poetry, Robert Macfarlane's search for wild places of the heart, Emma Mitchell's sojourn into nature and out of depression, a trip taken daily or Rachel Carson's generous observation of the natural world and all its splendor.
Unwind yourself into this book, and it will hold you fast. Firm. Safe. Into and beyond the dreamy, wild twilight.